Archive for December, 2007

10 Tips for a Successful Quit

Friday, December 28th, 2007

The New Year is approaching and it is a time when many people will make a resolution to stop smoking and I thought it was appropriate for me to write some of the lessons I learned from this quit.

  •  Educate yourself about nicotine addiction and withdrawal. Visit the American Lung Association, whyquit.com and quitsmokingonline.com. Read about smoking: I read Allen Carr’s book “The Easy Way to Quit Smoking”.
  • Have a plan! Some people can just decide they are quitting smoking and drop that last packet into a dustbin somewhere and never smoke again. There are others, like me, who are highly addicted and while I might throw the pack in the dustbin they’ll probably be resurrected within a short time. If you are addicted have a plan. 
  • Know yourself. If you have tried to quit before what caused you to go back smoking? Should you avoid alcohol, coffee etc for a little while? Should you avoid situations where there are a lot of people smoking? You are the key to your success!
  • Treat your plan like a contract. Set your quit date and stick to it. Let your friends and health care professionals know about your plan.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask for support from your friends, family, acquaintances whatever. If you can, talk about how you feel. Start a blog, keep a diary whatever – it really helps to get those feelings out. Join a support group such as the American Lung Association-  the people there understand what you may be experiencing and they will help you along.
  • Constantly educate yourself about the ill effects of nicotine to keep your guard up. I go to whyquit.com to reinforce my resolve to stay quit.
  • Treat your quit date as if it is the most important day in your life. Because it is!-
  • Be kind to yourself and plan rewards. Quitting is tough so be prepared to indulge yourself a little to help you through the first few weeks.
  • Maintain a good attitude. Use positive reinforcement “Yes You Can Quit!
  • Plan on Staying Quit. A lot of people quit for a short period and revert back to smoking. You have to work at maintaining your quit so don’ let your guard down after the first few months. Recognize that you are an addict and you can never have another ONE!!

You were a nicer person when you were smoking

Monday, December 17th, 2007

Recently, someone told me that I was a nicer person when I was smoking. The situation in which that occurred was a tense one but I am confident that I did not deserve having horrible remarks thrown at me. I know the statement was meant to hurt (and of course it did) but I don’t think the person who said it totally understood how much it hurt and what an awful thing it was to say. I actually felt as if someone had kicked me in the stomach and I was left totally winded. Basically it’s the same as telling an alcoholic to go get drunk or a heroin addict to go get a fix because the statement belittles the addict and diminishes all the work that he/she put into becoming “clean”. Fortunately I am a good way along in my quit and feeling strong (5 months now) so I didn’t use this as an excuse to go back smoking – another time I would have – and that’s what makes the statement so horrible. I do feel very belittled but as I say I honestly don’t think the person who said it knew how undermining the statement actually was… well at least I hope not.